How many books have your read on personal development? How many seminars have you attended? How many podcasts have you listened to? and how many blogs have you read to change your life?
My guess would be that you’ve spent hundreds of hours reading, watching and listening for ways to change your life for the better. I know I have, I am a self help junkie and was forever searching for that elusive book that would change me forever. I was looking externally for a lesson that would change me. It took years to learn that my life was not going to change from a book or a seminar or a podcast or a blog.
Your life literally changes within the space of 60 seconds.
Some of you will know exactly what I am talking about here and some of you might be thinking ‘what is the clown talking about!’
How to change in 60 seconds
Decide that you really want to change and what you want to change from and what you want to change to.
Deciding to change
This might sound a bit too simplistic. You might think this step is a given and that of course you want to change or you wouldn’t be investing all that time reading and listening to self help articles and seminars etc. However, ask yourself have you really thought about it?
Changing might involve changing your life totally, depending on your circumstances. I know people who have literally change the country they live, they’ve changed their friends, they’ve changed their house, and they’ve literally changed their surroundings which show a huge commitment.
I firmly believe that to change a long standing habit in your life you have to remove yourself totally your habits surroundings. I think a classic example of this is drug users. I deal with a lot of drug users in my role as a support worker. The ones, I have seen, come off the drugs quicker and more successfully are the ones who have literally removed themselves from their friends, their family, and their normal surroundings. They have re-invented themselves elsewhere. It’s like having one of those fairground machines where the mechanical arm picks up the teddy and you win the prize, it’s been taken out of its normal surroundings and given a new life.
Knowing what you might have to sacrifice in order to become a better you will it be worth it? If your answer is still yes and you have really thought about it and are willing to sacrifice then you have decided to change.
Knowing who you are
You know yourself very well and you know your feelings and thoughts about the world. Maybe you’re wrong, maybe you have a skewed perception of yourself, maybe you’re comparing yourself to people you shouldn’t be.
When I was younger I used to try and be like Tom Cruise in the films Top Gun, Days of Thunder and Cocktail. I wanted to be a confident, funny, go get em sort of person. It took me years to realize I wasn’t that person; I was quiet, confident, liked my own space and preferred to develop my intelligence rather than my list of conquests.
Who are you comparing yourself to? What do you think other people think about you? Ask your friends how they see you and what type of person they see you as. You have to be prepared for what you hear so don’t ask the question if you are not prepared fro the answers.
When you know who you really are and you still want to change aspects of your life. then you’re ready for the last step a changing.
Who do you want to be?
You wouldn’t go to a strange place without first having a route map to find it. So it is with life. you have to know what and where you want to be in life before you can actually go there.
You will know deep down if you really want to change. You will know generally who you really are and you will probably know what you want to change. Looking at these three aspects of change should only take you 60 seconds initially.
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You might be loving to visit the right place where you can get everything in abundance like gifted natures admirations or the warm , wavy beaches or the traditionally built temples or the mental and physical rejuvenations or would like to celebrate your own very special days in the land of Multi-culture, you are invited to India for getting the very best to fill in your insight of expectations.
Planning to visit India might be a very new experience for you but you have lot more surprises to be experienced in this land of versatility. It is really a very daunting experience since you have to choose between the south, north , the west and the east.
If you would like to get yourself experienced for a cultural heritage or to visit the greatest landscapes or the beautifully built temples stands as the divine wonders, India has much more to offer. You have to plan to visit a particular region of your special choice which purely depends on your own individual expectations and tastes.
If a new Honeymoon Couple would like to get a special deal of privacy near the Hills and Water falls, they can visit Kerala – The God’s own land. Nature is showing its special gratitude here and the real admirers of nature will certainly much longing to stay here . The Special Keralite Delicacies and the warm and comfort weather as well the silent witnessing nature expressing its vibrations in the water falls and the beautiful hill peaks , well – If you are having a thirst to feel the insight of nature , Kerala is the Optimul Choice without doubt.
Devotees and Temple Lovers can select Tamilnadu , the Temple Paradise. Madurai Meenakshi Amman Temple is a real wonder which is being built in the ancient days. The Pillars speaks endless stories and the Temple is filled with the blessings of Lord Meenakshi , the Goddess of kindness and full of grace. Thiruvannamalai , which is one of the much ancient spiritual centre of South India. The sacred mountain called by the sages, the Pillar of fire. It is a firm belief that multitude of seekers attained enlightenment and even today many enlightened beings living in the caves and huts around. There are lots of special tourism spots to give you the real , right experience which we have been longing for years to explore.
We can divide the country as the North, South, East and West and each one of these regions nurture cultures that are unique to them. It is really impossible to explore all Popular Tourist Destinations like Goa, Kerala , Golden Triangle , Rajasthan etc. in a single time visit. It’s not impossible to cover popular tourist destinations like the Golden Triangle, Rajasthan, Goa and Kerala in a single visit. You have to choose your special destination based on your personal interests.
Even the language, culture and living style varies in each and every part of India and India is said to be country which lives with Unity among Diversity.
The Northern Belt of India
(Jammu and Kashmir, Punjab, Haryana, Delhi, Himachal Pradesh, Uttar Pradesh, Bihar, Uttaranchal, Jharkhand, Chattisgarh, Rajasthan and Madhya Pradesh)
The northern states of Rajasthan, Delhi and Uttar Pradesh together form the Golden Triangle with its three cities Jaipur, Delhi and Agra. In these regions people speaks Hindi as the main language and this is a very famous belt of India where there is TajMahal , one of the Monument among THE WONDERS OF THE WORLD is standing as a silent witness for the true Love of King Shajahan.
The Western India:-
(Goa, Gujarat, Maharashtra)
Goa is the very famous tourism spot with lovely beaches and very famous for its special carnivals. Maharashtra is home to one of India’s biggest cities and the business hub of the country, Mumbai (Bombay).
The Eastern India:-
(West Bengal, Orissa, Assam, Meghalaya, Nagaland, Sikkim, Arunachal Pradesh, Tripura, Mizoram and Manipur)
Here you can visit the very famous Sun Temple, Buddhist monasteries and so on.
(Karnataka, Andhra Pradesh, Tamil Nadu and Kerala)This is other Major part of India where you can hear different languages in all four States. Kerala is famous for its beautiful coconut –trees , the lovely farms, warm weather and the lush green atmosphere.
Tamilnadu is the Temple Land and no doubt the real Holy land.
Andhrapradesh and Karnataka has much more to offer to the travel lovers.
A travel admirer has many things to be experienced personally in this Versatile land. The very special relaxing moments in India , the land of Multiculture is not for word’s description.
We will feel the time , efforts and the plan really worths out of our personal experiences.
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